I know what Christian men want because I spent 4+ years coaching men. And most dating advice for Christian women is based on assumptions, stereotypes, and what sounds nice, not what's actually true. 

My name is Tamisha Souza I'm a Christian dating and relationship coach.

I've been helping women to step into marriages where they finally feel pursued, secure, and seen.

But here's the thing: I wasn't always her.

I used to be you.

The woman who led everything. Dated like I was conducting a performance review. Loved from my head because my heart felt too risky.

I was capable, driven, and successful in every area... except the one that mattered most.

You see, I used to think I was the problem

I'd meet good men and somehow it wouldn't work.

Either they weren't leading... or I couldn't stop.

The problem wasn't *me*. It was that I was leading from survival instead of safety.

I was showing up in dating the same way I showed up in life: like I had to figure everything out alone.

And men could feel it.

Then everything changed when I let God reshape my identity.

I stopped performing. Stopped managing. Stopped trying to "earn" pursuit.

I learned what marriage-minded men actually value, not from books, but from coaching them for years.

And when I finally became the woman who understood how to embody those qualities naturally? I met my husband.

A man who shows up with intention.

The marriage I have now isn't luck. It's the fruit of a woman who let God rebuild her from the inside out.

Here's what's actually happening in your dating life 

You're the one initiating. Clarifying. Following up. Leading conversations that should be led by him.

And when you finally meet a man who *seems* solid, one of two things happens:

He doesn't step up... or you can't step back.

Without feeling like you're carrying the masculine load in every relationship.

Without wondering if you're "too much" or "not soft enough."

Without attracting passive men who need you to tell them what to do.

Even if you've tried to be more "feminine" and it felt fake.

Even if you grew up watching women who had no choice but to be strong.

Even if every dating book you've read felt like it was written by someone who's never actually been you.

There's a massive gap between what women THINK Godly men want and what they're actually looking for. And that gap is probably why quality men keep slipping through your fingers.

This e-book breaks down exactly what's been keeping you stuck. Not theories. Not guesswork. Just straight-up data from years of coaching men through their dating lives.

It's based on hundreds of real conversations with real men who opened up about what actually attracts them, what makes them pull away, and what makes them think "this is the woman I want to build a life with."

This is the same shift that changed everything for women who spent years wondering why good men weren't stepping up, using simple secrets discovered by observing what actually happens when a Godly man decides "she's the one", but with a unique twist that allows you to attract intentional pursuit without dimming your standards, your strength, or your ambition.

This book will show you the specific behaviors and mindsets that repel the good ones (even when you think you're doing everything right, like I used to).

I’m grateful to have this insight, and I’m glad to share it so you can recognize and connect with the kind of man God has for you.

The secret most coaches won't tell you

There's an unusual method that marriage-minded Christian men use to choose a wife, and it has nothing to do with being perfect, quiet, or less ambitious.

It's about being *recognizable*.

Not as a project. Not as a puzzle. As a partner.

When you understand what Godly men are actually looking for (and I mean *actually*, not the church-girl clichés), you stop trying to prove yourself and start showing up as someone who's easy to choose.

This makes a difference because most women never get to hear what men actually think

I spent years coaching Christian men. Hearing their fears. Their frustrations. What makes them choose one woman over another.

You know what I learned?

Godly men want to pursue. They just need to feel safe doing it.

And when you show up from pressure, survival, or "proving yourself" energy? They don't feel safe. They feel like they're walking into a job application.

That's why good men go passive around you. Not because you're too much. Because the dynamic feels wrong.

This Works Even If You've Never Felt "Naturally Feminine". It's about identity shift, not behavior management.

Reading this e-book you can finally learn exactly WHY you are not being pursued. And you'll learn how to stay open without abandoning yourself.

And you'll become the kind of woman a Godly man wants to choose, not because you performed perfectly, but because you're finally leading from the right place. 

This is what it looks like when the right man finds a woman who is ready.

Yep. Seven dollars.

Not $700. Not even $70.

**$7** gets you access to the full breakdown of what Christian men want in a woman. 

Unsure It's Worth a Measly $7?

Let me make this even easier.

Here's what else you'll discover inside:

→ **The real reason you keep dating men who "need help"**, and how to become the woman intentional men recognize instantly

→ **How to soften without losing your standards, your voice, or your sense of self** (this is the part most coaches get wrong)

→ **The exact mindset shift that makes you magnetic to godly men**, without trying harder, doing more, or pretending to be someone you're not

→ **Why "being yourself" isn't enough**, and what actually makes a man think "I want to build a life with her"

→ **The communication style that invites pursuit** instead of pushing it away (you'll feel the difference immediately)

Why Is It Only $7?

Because this isn't the coaching. This is the *introduction* to the coaching.

Think of it like this: You wouldn't commit to three months of 1:1 work without knowing if we're the right fit.

For $7, you get full clarity on what the e-book includes, how it works, and whether it's right for you.

If it resonates? We talk. If it doesn't? You're out the cost of a latte.

And honestly? I'd rather work with women who *choose* to be here, not women who got sold into it.